Marketing has a lot to answer for. Marketing is all about messages but sometimes the message can result in us being led rather than following naturally. Good marketing has values and ethics. Bad marketing dupes, deludes and denies and hides the truth. The first will keep a customer for life. The second will fool me but once.
Greeting card companies created new occasions to fuel their own business. They created days that didn’t exist. On the one hand – clever. On the other, or if you like – the bigger picture – they contribute to the destruction of values and deny the origins of tradition.
In some cases, marketing has diluted the most precious of rituals. This little story has nothing to do with belief and everything to do with the above. It makes a point, no more.
When I was a child there were a few sacred (very) cows. There was Christmas, your parents birthdays and those very important days (if you were an Irish Catholic) called your First Holy Communion and your Confirmation.
There was a huge build up and a solemn preparation. You were about to be introduced to God. The day was special in every way and you were the star attraction. You felt like a Saint and certainly that you were special. That was enough and reward enough. A great memory.
Fast forward to 2009 and a story from a hotelier who knows all about what is really important. His beautiful hotel (do book your luxurious weekend there (www.ballygarryhouse.com) has been delivering celebration for generations, communions among them. This summer and another generation were making their First Holy Communion. It took him back to the innocence and honesty of his own special day, the memories flowed. He watched the excited ‘mini Saints’ celebrate without a care in the world. He engaged them, chatted with them and celebrated with them. One perky young chap was having a ball. The owner asked him how he was enjoying his very special day.
The reply was like a thunderbolt; “Great, I have made €900 so far …..”
Lost souls indeed.